Deep dive into the nervous system, fight/flight/freeze/fawn responses, inner child healing, and "Children of the Dungeon" MAC cards by MriyaRun.
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Children of the Dungeon and the Nervous System: Why the Body Remembers What We Have Long Explained to Ourselves Mentally
When the Nervous System Lives in a Dungeon
Sometimes a person has long understood everything. From the perspective of brain anatomy, this means that their neocortex (the new cortex of the brain), in particular the prefrontal cortex, works perfectly. This part is responsible for rational thinking, planning, understanding cause-and-effect relationships, and realizing one's own experience.
They have already read about trauma. They know what boundaries are. They can almost academically explain the difference between fear, shame, and anger. They have the vocabulary, the experience, the intellect, the notes in their phone, and perhaps even a "psychology" folder with so many saved posts that a small university could be opened there.
But then someone writes a dry message: "We need to talk."
And that's it. In that exact second, the amygdala takes over—an evolutionarily much older part of the brain that functions like a fire alarm. It acts in milliseconds, completely blocking the slow and deliberate neocortex.
The material has an educational and self-reflective character. It does not replace a consultation with a doctor, psychotherapist, psychiatrist, neurologist, or other specialist. If you experience pain, panic symptoms, sleep disturbances, severe anxiety, depressive states, traumatic memories, self-harm, or frightening symptoms, you should seek professional help. MAC cards do not provide diagnoses and do not cure. They help to more carefully observe internal material: images, emotions, bodily signals, old roles, defenses, and needs.
The adult part still tries to say: "Calm down, this might be a neutral phrase." But the body has already held an emergency meeting, pressed the panic button, raised all the internal guards, and issued an order: "Either we run, or we freeze, or we quickly become very accommodating."
This is exactly where the most interesting part begins. Not where we are smart. But where the nervous system is faster than our presentation of ourselves.
"Children of the Dungeon" sounds almost literal in this context. It is not just a beautiful metaphor about the inner child. It is the image of those parts of the psyche that once learned to survive in tension, deficit, shame, danger, loneliness, unpredictability, or emotional coldness. Carl Jung and other founders of depth psychology described the "inner child" not as a fiction, but as a very real neural network of memories and bodily sensations that remains unchanged from early years.
They don't necessarily live in intense drama. Sometimes they live in a very decent apartment, go to work, keep a calendar, pay bills, and just occasionally turn on the alarm in situations where they could have just taken a breath a long time ago.
Inside us, there might be a child who learned to hide. A child who laughs so as not to cry. A child who became a hero because the adults had no time for them. A child who became a little psychologist for the whole family. A child who did not ask because asking was dangerous. A child who did not get angry because anger destroyed love. A child who didn't want anything because desires made them vulnerable.
And the adult person later wonders: "Why can't I just say no?"
Because someone very small inside still thinks that doing so might get them exiled from love.
The Body Turns On Before We Formulate It Beautifully
The nervous system doesn't work like a philosophy club. It doesn't sit in a circle, light a candle, and ask: "Friends, how do we feel about the potential threat today?"
It assesses the situation quickly. Sometimes too quickly. According to Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory, our autonomic nervous system constantly performs "neuroception"—a subconscious scanning of the environment for danger. This happens entirely outside our conscious control. Its task is not to make us happy, wise, productive, and pleasant in correspondence. Its primary task is to preserve life.
When the system perceives a threat, it can trigger various reactions:
- to fight;
- to run;
- to freeze;
- to fawn;
- to disconnect;
- to control;
- to joke;
- to become a "normal person," even though inside, the internal fire department has already been dispatched to a call.
In the classic language of stress, people often talk about "fight," "flight," and "freeze" responses. In life, they rarely look so theatrical. A person does not necessarily actually fight or run away. They can "fight" with sarcasm, arguments, a sharp tone, or inner criticism. They can "flee" into work, scrolling, food, caring for others, or endless chores. They can "freeze" in silence, procrastination, an empty head, or the feeling of "I am here, but it's like I'm not."
And if you look at this through MAC cards, it becomes clear: the card does not tell a person that something is "wrong" with them. It creates a safe distance. Not "I am broken," but "I see an image in which a small figure stands near a dark entrance and holds a flashlight." And you can already work with that.
The image is softer than a direct interrogation. It doesn't put a person against the wall. Images are recognized by the right hemisphere of the brain, which is responsible for emotions and holistic perception, while direct questions activate the left hemisphere with its rigid logical control and defensive mechanisms. It is as if it says: "Look, here is a scene. Maybe this is about you. And maybe not. But if something inside tightened, let's sit next to it and not pretend that this is just a random picture."
That is why the online MAC cards MriyaRun and paper decks from the MAC catalog work well in topics where ordinary words are either too harsh or too smart.
Fight: When the Little Defender Got the Microphone
The "fight" reaction does not always look like aggression. Often, it is an attempt to regain control, a boundary, a voice, or dignity. In a healthy variant, it helps to say: "Stop, you can't treat me like this." Physiologically, this is accompanied by a release of adrenaline and noradrenaline: the heartbeat quickens, muscles tense, and blood rushes to the extremities, preparing the body for active opposition. In a traumatic or overloaded variant, it can step onto the stage with a drum, a torch, and a list of all grievances from the last seven years.
In "Children of the Dungeon," such a part might look like a little rebel. A child who long ago stopped believing in calm requests. They already tried being nice. Tried waiting. Tried staying silent. It didn't work. Now their strategy is simpler: if they don't hear me, I will become loud.
In adult life, this can manifest like this:
- a person answers sharply where they could have spoken more calmly;
- attacks in advance so as not to feel vulnerability;
- criticizes themselves first, before someone else does;
- perceives neutral words as a hidden attack;
- defends boundaries as if it were the final battle in a movie, although the conversation was about who would take out the trash.
Here, the connection with the theme of anger works well. In the article «Anger: how to understand it, live through it, and not hand over the steering wheel», we look at anger not as a bad emotion, but as a signal of a boundary, pain, injustice, or a need. In the context of "Children of the Dungeon," anger often belongs not only to the adult person, but also to that inner child who was once left unprotected.
Questions for the card:
- Who on this card is defending themselves?
- What is this part trying to protect me from?
- Where is my anger really about a boundary, and where is it already defending an old pain?
- How can I get my voice back without burning down the entire internal house along with the furniture?
For practice, you can keep the Diary of the Mistress of Her Boundaries or the EQ Emotion Diary nearby. The card shows the scene, while the diary helps not to leave everything at the level of "oh, interesting, I'm enraged again."
Flight: When Anxiety Bought Itself Sneakers
The "flight" reaction doesn't necessarily mean running out of the room. Although sometimes you really want to, especially if the conversation starts with the words "just don't get offended."
This reaction is governed by the sympathetic nervous system (just like "fight"), but instead of aggression, it chooses distancing. Chronic "flight" leads to elevated levels of cortisol—the stress hormone, which in the long run depletes the immune system and impairs memory.
In adult life, "flight" often looks respectable:
- constant busyness;
- the inability to rest;
- the desire to quickly close a topic;
- avoiding difficult conversations;
- "I'll think about it later," which lasts for half a year;
- a sudden need to clean the apartment exactly when you need to talk about feelings;
- scrolling, work, shopping, studying, new courses, and yet another notebook for a life that will start after stabilization.
In "Children of the Dungeon," this might be a child who didn't have the right to stop. If you stop - they will catch you. If you relax - something will happen. If you rest - you will be called lazy. If you aren't useful - you won't be noticed.
Such a part can be very successful. It knows how to work, rescue, organize, and run ahead of its own exhaustion. The problem is that the body is not a free courier for other people's expectations. It can carry things for a long time, but then it issues a bill: with insomnia, tension, irritability, pain, fatigue, and the loss of desires.
Here, the Somatic diary "Conversation with Oneself" fits well. Because the question is not only "what am I thinking?", but also "where am I constantly running with my body?"
Questions for the card:
- What does this part want to run away from?
- What will happen if I stop for 10 minutes?
- What old danger comes alive when I do nothing?
- Where do I confuse moving towards life with running away from myself?
If this theme resonates through your life path and choices, you can add MAC "My Myth: The Hero's Journey". There, the escape can turn into a journey: not just "I am being carried away," but "I see what stage of the story I am at."
Freeze: When Someone Pressed Pause Inside
Freezing is often the most shameful. A person might later say to themselves: "Why didn't I do anything? Why did I stay silent? Why didn't I leave? Why didn't I answer? Why did I stand there like a pillar?"
Because in that moment, the system decided: moving is dangerous. This state is linked to the dorsal branch of the vagus nerve (dorsal vagal complex). When a threat is perceived as insurmountable and there is no chance to escape or fight back, the body "turns off" energy: the heart rate slows, blood pressure drops, and a sense of numbness or dissociation (disconnection from reality) may occur.
Freezing is not a weakness. It is an old defensive reaction that turns on when fighting or fleeing seems impossible. In childhood, it might have been very smart. If the adult is big, loud, and unpredictable, and the child is small, the best option sometimes really was to become quiet. To not breathe loudly. To not argue. To not want anything. To not cry too noticeably. To be furniture, but with good grades.
In adult life, freezing can look like this:
- an empty head during a conflict;
- the inability to answer a message;
- postponing an important decision;
- bodily stiffness;
- the feeling that "I am sort of not here";
- the desire to hide, to disappear, to not be visible;
- a very calm voice when everything inside has already been flooded.
"Children of the Dungeon" are especially accurate here. Because the dungeon is a place where you can hide from what is too big. It is dark there, but familiar. It is lonely, but safer than upstairs. There, a child can sit with a flashlight and think: "If they don't see me, they won't touch me."
Questions for the card:
- Where is the freezing on the card?
- What is this part afraid to do?
- What does it expect from the adult me?
- What is the smallest movement possible right now, without doing violence to oneself?
Here, it is important not to demand a heroic breakthrough from yourself. The frozen part will not unfreeze from the phrase "come on already, pull yourself together." It will only take better notes that the world is pressing down again.
You can start small: feel your feet, describe the room, take a longer exhale, touch the surface of the table, write down one phrase. Not "conquer the trauma by lunchtime," but return one centimeter of presence to yourself.
Fawn: When Love Had to Be Earned
There is another reaction that is often not named alongside "fight/flight/freeze," but is constantly found in life. Fawning. Psychotherapist Pete Walker introduced the term Fawn (to please/to serve), describing it as a common reaction to complex stress and trauma. It involves abandoning one's own needs to appease the source of the threat.
Becoming convenient. Guessing. Softening. Smiling. Saying: "Oh, it's nothing," even though inside a little secretary is already writing down: "It hurt, but we will bury this in the department of the unsaid."
Fawning often is born where love was unpredictable. Where safety depended on the mood of the adult. Where the child learned early on to read faces, intonations, and pauses. Where "being oneself" was too risky, and "being convenient" gave a chance for warmth.
In adult life, this can look very beautiful:
- the person understands everyone;
- doesn't create problems;
- doesn't ask for too much;
- always puts themselves in someone else's shoes;
- takes on the emotional labor;
- says "it's not hard for me," when it is already hard for them to just be human.
This is not kindness. More precisely, not only kindness. Sometimes it's an old survival strategy dressed up in a suit of good manners.
This is exactly where the resource decks «I Have the Right» and «I Am Living My Happy Life» work well. After deep work with "Children of the Dungeon," they help not to leave the person with just the pain. Because it's not enough to see where I used to disappear. It is important to gradually return to oneself the right to exist.
Questions for the card:
- Where am I trying to earn safety?
- To whom am I currently giving the right to decide whether I have a place?
- What is my "yes" that has long been a hidden "no"?
- What will become possible if I am slightly less convenient and a little more alive?
Muscle Armor: When the Body Keeps the Old Regulations
The body doesn't just react to stress. It can get used to it.
If a child lives in tension for years, the body can organize itself around a defense. The jaw clenches. The shoulders rise. Breathing becomes shallow. The stomach tenses. The gaze becomes wary or vacant. The voice gets stuck. The pelvis seems to lose its freedom of movement. A person doesn't always notice this, because for them, the tension has become the norm. Like an old background noise in a room: it hums, but if it has been humming for a long time, the brain already calls it silence.
In body-oriented approaches, there is the idea of a muscle armor: chronic tensions that once helped hold back emotions, impulses, screaming, crying, fear, anger, and desires. This concept was first proposed by psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich. He noticed that suppressed emotions do not disappear but settle in the fascia and muscles, forming physical "blocks." Such ideas should be treated with caution, without magical conclusions and without making diagnoses based on posture. But as a metaphor for self-observation, it is a very precise image.
The armor is not the enemy. It used to be protective gear.
The problem begins when the war ended a long time ago, yet the body is still walking around in full tactical gear. And not just walking around, but getting offended when asked to take off the helmet: "What are you talking about, it's dangerous here. I've been wearing this helmet since 1998, it's practically family now."
Here, MAC cards can work not as an instruction to "relax this zone," but as a soft way to notice:
- where on the card the body is protected;
- what it is holding;
- which emotion has no way out;
- which part is afraid to relax;
- what action could complete the old tension.
To do this, it is good to combine «Children of the Dungeon» with somatic diary practices. You don't need to look for a hidden message from the Universe in every symptom. Sometimes your neck hurts because you sat at your laptop like a shrimp with a deadline. But sometimes the body really holds emotional material that is worth looking at more closely.
In the article «Psychosomatics of the back, joints, and support», we already touched upon the topics of support, boundaries, responsibility, and the habit of dragging everything on oneself. Here, this logic becomes even deeper: in "Children of the Dungeon," the adult's body meets the childhood story that once learned to hold on.
Why Movement Completes What the Head Cannot Finish Saying
A stress response often prepares the body for action. To run. To fight. To defend oneself. To push away. To scream. To exit. To hide. When the action is impossible or forbidden, the charge can remain in the system. Then the person seems to understand everything, but the body continues to live as if the situation hasn't ended.
Psychotherapist Peter Levine, the founder of the Somatic Experiencing approach, cited the example of wild animals: after an antelope escapes a predator, it doesn't lie down with post-traumatic stress syndrome; instead, it instinctively begins to tremble intensely. This small movement discharges the accumulated energy of stress, completing the survival cycle.
This is exactly why after severe stress, you sometimes want to walk, shake your hands, cry, laugh, clean, run, dance, knead something, or write harsh drafts that are better left unsent without the adult part's review.
The body seeks closure.
In work with MAC, this can be done very simply:
- Draw a card.
- See which reaction is alive in it: fight, flight, freeze, hide, fawn, or control.
- Ask yourself: what action was not completed?
- Choose a micro-movement for today.
A micro-movement is not always a big action. It can be:
- going outside for a 15-minute walk;
- writing an honest phrase in a diary;
- saying "I will think about it and answer tomorrow";
- asking for help;
- taking a longer exhale;
- kneading your shoulders;
- setting one boundary;
- returning to the topic not with an explosion, but with clarity;
- stop punishing yourself for a reaction that once helped you survive.
The main thing is not to turn the practice into another exam. Because the inner child often lives in the mode: "Right now I am healing incorrectly, and I will be expelled from the spiritual faculty." Don't do that.
A small movement that restores the feeling of: "I am no longer just reacting, I can choose" is enough.
How to Work with "Children of the Dungeon"
«Children of the Dungeon» is a large series of MAC cards about the inner child, childhood experience, play, fears, shame, boundaries, loneliness, fantasy, pain, and resources. Its power lies not in making childhood beautiful. Nor is it about digging up all the heavy stuff again and leaving the person among the ruins with a flashlight and the phrase "well, now you are aware."
Its power lies in providing images for those internal states that often lack a language.
The paper series consists of three parts:
- Part 1: "Fairy Tale World" - about fantasy, fears, magical thinking, early defenses, inner refuges, and children's ways to survive through imagery.
- Part 2: "Courtyard Childhood" - about the group, shame, belonging, conflicts, play, rules, visibility, friendship, rivalry, and social roles.
- Part 3: "Play, Pain, and Magic" - about more complex experiences, hidden power, pain, transformation, growing up, and the return of resources.
For convenience, we can structure the approach:
Part of the deckFocus of workWhen it's most often usedFairy Tale WorldEarly defenses, escaping into fantasy, core fearWhen anxiety is irrational, "causeless," or very deep.Courtyard ChildhoodSocial roles, fear of rejection, "convenience"Problems with colleagues, fear of publicity, imposter syndrome.Play, Pain, and MagicIntegration of shadow sides, growing upWhen a resource is needed for change, accepting the complexity of the past.
For the topic of the nervous system, you can work like this:
Card 1. What got activated right now?
Draw a card and ask:
- what part of me is in the foreground right now?
- is it fighting, running, freezing, hiding, fawning, or controlling?
- how old is it, if you listen to your feelings rather than logic?
Card 2. What is it protecting me from?
Here it is important not to argue with the reaction. Even if it seems "stupid," "excessive," or "childish." For the inner child, it can be very logical.
Questions:
- what is the danger on the card?
- is it a real danger right now or an old memory?
- what is this part most afraid of?
Card 3. What kind of adult contact does it need?
Not advice. Not a lecture. Not "well, it's all in the past now." But contact.
Questions:
- what can I say to this part without devaluing it?
- what boundary can the adult me set instead of it?
- what small movement will return my presence to me?
This can be combined with the Diary of Acceptance, if a lot of shame or self-criticism arises after looking at the cards. Acceptance here doesn't mean "I like everything." It means: "I am going to stop fighting the fact that this part exists in me."
Examples in Which It Is Easy to Recognize Yourself
Olena and the Message Without a Smiley
Olena receives a message from a colleague: "Ok, we'll talk tomorrow." No smiley face. No "thank you." No normal human warmth in the text.
Olena's adult part understands: perhaps the person was just in a hurry.
Olena's nervous system reads: "You are about to be rejected. Prepare yourself."
She spends half the evening replaying the dialogue, types three versions of an answer, deletes them, gets offended, then feels ashamed, then decides to be cold, then realizes that being cold also requires energy, and goes to wash her cup with such intensity as if the cup is to blame for her attachment style. Physiologically, at this time, her blood sugar levels fluctuate, her breathing becomes shallow, and her body continues to prepare for an imaginary conflict.
A card from "Children of the Dungeon" might show a small figure near closed doors. And then the question changes. Not "why am I so weird?", but "when did I first learn to read a pause as a danger?"
Next, you can take a card from «I Have the Right»: what right do I need to return to myself? The right not to guess? The right to clarify? The right not to build an entire internal drama out of a single message?
Andriy and the Body That Doesn't Want to Go to the Meeting
Andriy has an important conversation with his manager coming up. He has everything prepared. He has the arguments. He has the facts. He has the adult position. But an hour before the meeting, his stomach tightens, his hands get cold, and his head goes empty.
This is a classic sign of blood flowing away from the digestive system and the prefrontal cortex in favor of the large muscles—a reaction of self-preservation in the face of a "predator," old as time itself.
He wants to cancel. Or just walk in and immediately agree to everything, just to get it over with faster.
This might not be a "weakness of character," but an old reaction to an authority figure. Perhaps in childhood, an adult's voice meant a verdict, not a dialogue. The body remembers this faster than Andriy has time to say: "I am having a constructive business meeting."
A card can help see who inside is going to this meeting: the adult Andriy or the little boy who is about to be evaluated.
Questions:
- what can I do before the meeting to return to the adult position?
- what phrase will I prepare as my support?
- how will I know that right now is not the past, but the current situation?
Here, «My Myth: The Hero's Journey» can come in handy, if you need to see not only the fear, but also the stage of transition: I am not a little one facing a judge, I am an adult standing before a threshold.
Marta and the Exhaustion From Her Own Convenience
Marta helps everyone. She is a wonderful friend, a responsible colleague, an attentive daughter, a smart partner, and a person to whom everyone says: "It's so easy with you."
The problem is that for Marta, it is no longer easy with herself.
She is exhausted. She is irritated by requests. She is angry at the people to whom she herself fails to set boundaries. She says "yes," and then dreams that everyone would guess that it was a sacrificial "yes" with a hidden bill.
In "Children of the Dungeon," a child might appear who once understood: for me to be loved, I need to be useful. And then the adult Marta can stop scolding herself for her fatigue. She can see: this is not just bad time management. This is an old contract made with love.
Next, «I Have the Right» and «I Am Living My Happy Life» work well. Because after the phrase "I don't want to be convenient anymore," you need not only a revolution, but also new internal permissions:
- I have the right to get tired;
- I can say no;
- I can choose not to be good for everyone;
- I can choose myself without becoming cruel.
Why Is an Image Specifically Needed Here
When a person works with childhood defenses directly, they might feel ashamed. "That was a long time ago," "I am an adult," "others had it worse," "why am I digging into this again," "I just need to function."
An image bypasses some of these defenses much more gently. It doesn't break down the doors. It doesn't shout: "Open up, we are having a psychological epiphany here." It just stands nearby and shines a flashlight.
This is the power of MAC:
- they help talk about difficult things without direct self-blame;
- they provide a distance between the "I" and the experience;
- they open up bodily and emotional associations;
- they are suitable for diary work;
- they pair well with fairy tale therapy, transactional analysis, somatic awareness, and work with internal parts.
MAC cards don't know the truth about a person. And that is a good thing. They shouldn't be the authority. The authority is the person's own response. The card only offers a scene in which something might be recognized.
If you want to take a broader look at the different MriyaRun decks, you can go to the article «MAC cards online and in paper». There you will find various formats gathered together: from "My Myth" and "Dreams" to resource decks and "Children of the Dungeon."
A Small Practice: Three Cards for the Nervous System
Take the online deck "Children of the Dungeon" or one of the printed parts. Formulate a request:
"Which of my stress reactions is active right now and what is it trying to protect?"
Draw three cards.
First card: the reaction
Look at the image and ask:
- is it more about fighting, running, freezing, fawning, hiding, or controlling?
- what is the figure on the card doing?
- how does this relate to me lately?
Second card: the old reason
Ask:
- when could this reaction have been useful?
- what did it help to survive?
- what childhood logic does it preserve?
Third card: the adult step
Ask:
- what can I do right now without doing violence to myself?
- what action will complete the tension by at least 5 percent? (for example, a physiological sigh—a double inhale through the nose followed by a long exhale through the mouth, which has been clinically proven to lower heart rate).
- what kind of support do I need?
After that, write down one phrase:
"My nervous system is not the enemy. It is trying to protect me. And I can teach it that I have more choices right now."
This phrase is not magical. It doesn't turn off stress like turning off a light in the kitchen. But it changes your stance. Instead of "something is wrong with me," it becomes "there is a part in me that is trying very hard, but it is using outdated maps of the terrain."
And thanks to neuroplasticity—the brain's ability to form new neural connections throughout life—old maps can be updated.
Where Other MriyaRun Decks Come In
"Children of the Dungeon" successfully uncovers the childhood layer: fear, shame, loneliness, play, pain, magical thinking, and ways of surviving. But after this, a person often needs other doors.
- «Dreams» help you see the internal dialogue between the Child, the Parent, and the Adult: who dreams, who forbids, and who can choose a real step.
- «Dream. Desire. Fantasize» brings back the contact with desire, bodily response, sensitivity, and the lively "I want," which is often lost after a long life in survival mode.
- «My Myth: The Hero's Journey» helps you view a crisis as a stage of a journey, rather than as proof of your own inadequacy.
- «I Have the Right» works with internal permissions: to have boundaries, to be separate, to want things, to rest, to say no, and to not be perfect.
- «I Am Living My Happy Life» supports the movement toward life after the old defenses have become visible. Because the goal is not to endlessly analyze the dungeon. The goal is to find the stairs, the door, the key, the flashlight, and support to gradually return to life.
That is why the entire MriyaRun MAC card lineup can work as a system:
- "Children of the Dungeon" shows what was hidden;
- "Dreams" help to hear the inner voices;
- "My Myth" gives the structure of the path;
- "Dream. Desire. Fantasize" brings back desires;
- "I Have the Right" grants permissions;
- "I Am Living My Happy Life" translates this into gentle, daily movement.
You Don't Need to Become a Perfectly Regulated Person
In the topic of the nervous system, it is easy to fall into a new trap: now you always have to be calm, mindful, grounded, with good posture, a soft voice, and the gaze of a person who hasn't argued with their loved ones over the dishes in three years.
This isn't life. This is an advertising brochure for the nervous system that the nervous system itself did not sign.
A living person sometimes gets angry. Gets scared. Freezes. Avoids. Worries. Returns to old reactions. Feels ashamed. Tries again. Sometimes takes one step forward, then two sideways, then sits on the floor and thinks: "Maybe I am just complicated." Yes, perhaps. But complicated doesn't mean broken. Self-compassion researcher Kristin Neff constantly emphasizes: accepting your own imperfection is the key to emotional resilience, not an obstacle to it.
Working with MAC cards and somatic awareness does not make a person flawless. It makes them more attentive to themselves.
Where there used to be an automatic reaction, a pause appears.
Where there was shame, curiosity appears.
Where there was the phrase "I am like this," something more precise emerges: "I learned to defend myself this way."
Where the body used to scream through a symptom, a softer language might appear: "I am tired," "I am scared," "I need a boundary," "I want support," "I am angry," "I do not want to disappear."
Sometimes this is already a great deal.
Because the inner child from the dungeon doesn't always ask to be immediately led out into the spotlight. Often, they first need someone to come down slowly, without breaking the doors or shaming them for the dark, and say:
"I see you. You are not bad. You have just been alone for a long time with your own ways to survive. Now we can look for other ways together."
And this is where growing up begins—a growing up that doesn't betray the child inside.
It doesn't force them to be silent.
It doesn't turn them into a correction project.
Instead, it gives back what they often lacked the most: contact, the right to be alive, and an adult nearby who won't leave them alone in the dungeon anymore.
Recommended MriyaRun internal links:
- Online MAC cards MriyaRun
- Catalog of printed MAC cards
- Online deck "Children of the Dungeon"
- MAC "Children of the Dungeon". Part 1: Fairy Tale World
- MAC "Children of the Dungeon". Part 2: Courtyard Childhood
- MAC "Children of the Dungeon". Part 3: Play, Pain, and Magic
- MAC "My Myth: The Hero's Journey"
- MAC "Dream. Desire. Fantasize"
- MAC "Dreams"
- MAC "I Have the Right"
- MAC "I Am Living My Happy Life"
- Somatic diary "Conversation with Oneself"
- EQ Emotion Diary
- Diary of the Mistress of Her Boundaries
- Diary of Acceptance
- Children's psychosomatics: when a child's body speaks what there are no words for yet
- Psychosomatics of the back, joints, and support
- Trauma, an old fairy tale, and the loss of flexibility
- Favorite childhood role: scenarios and fairy tale therapy
- Anger: how to understand it, live through it, and not hand over the steering wheel
- MriyaRun — self-reflection tools for dreams, emotions and action
- Toolkit
- Children of the Dungeon & Nervous System | MriyaRun MAC