What does happiness mean?
Happiness is only a properly organized life © Mykhailo Litvak
At the heart of the pursuit of happiness lies the inherent basic need of a person to feel his worth and to be in harmony with himself. Happiness is a state available only to man. Unlike humans, animals can only experience pleasure, comfort, or satisfaction.
Happiness is both a situational state and a lasting feeling. Its understanding is always subjective: a person determines his own state of happiness based on individual desires and needs.
Conventionally, happiness can be defined as a balance between all important spheres of life of a specific individual. The happiest emotions
You are happy or unhappy not because of what you have, or who you are, where you are, or what you do; your state is determined by what you think about it. ©Dale Carnegie
There is no universal happiness for everyone. Each person has his own personal, subjective, unique feeling of happiness, which depends on his individual needs, desires, goals and on the extent to which they are satisfied and achieved.
The main problem faced by everyone who wants to be happy is the inability to define happiness. The philosophy of happiness
When describing their happy state, people can usually measure it in terms of time: for someone it is a moment of happiness, for someone a fraction of a second, for someone happy days, months, years. Most often, people associate their feeling of happiness with some important event in life or a series of events.
It has already been arranged that a person cannot constantly feel happiness, neither at the physiological level, nor at the mental level. Many people cannot determine how much and what they need in order to be completely happy, because at a subconscious level a person knows that after getting everything they need for happiness, it will still not be enough over time, and the feeling of happiness soon passes . What is the happiness of a person?
Hormones of happiness
The feeling of happiness produces certain hormones in the human body, such as
Serotonin - contributes to a good mood. Dopamine - increases confidence. Endorphin - causes a feeling of unconditional joy.
This specificity of chemical processes occurring in the human body in a state of happiness sharply activates the work of the heart, which causes an overload of the entire cardiovascular system, which is not good. Roughly speaking, if we had the ability to feel happy every moment, we would have a very short life.
Ingredients of happiness
If we consider happiness as a process or a way of existence, then happiness can consist of the following important components:
- the ability to rejoice in all good things;
- the ability to feel pleasure;
- partial absence of suffering;
- consciousness and goal setting.
- absence of long intrapersonal or interpersonal conflicts;
- existence of harmonious relations;
- improvement of professional qualities;
- expanding the circle of communication;
- achievement of set goals, etc.
Researcher D. Montier identified 3 components of happiness:
external circumstances; genetic predisposition; personal activity.
Consider the signs of a happy person
A truly happy person is a person who understands that all that he has is what he needs! © Lev Mykolayovych Tolstoy
Happy people often feel and express gratitude to others. A sign of happiness is the desire to share one's joy, share one's feelings with others, so they are often expressed, for example, with words of thanks. The power of gratitude
A sign of happiness is a manifestation of kindness. Such manifestations include care, empathy, politeness, and willingness to help.
A happy person lives in the "here and now" moment. Appreciates the present, easily lets go of the past and does not look into the distant future. However, the desire to dream is also considered a sign of happiness.
Positive emotions as a sign of happiness
They say that happiness loves silence. Yes, it probably is. But how can you resist and not share your happiness with loved ones. A sparkle in the eyes, a good mood, joy on the lips cannot be hidden when you are absolutely happy.
Happy people smile more often, joke and can easily laugh at themselves or their shortcomings. Such people do not take things too close to their hearts, and treat life more simply.
Interest in life is an important sign of happiness
Happy is the one who never loses this interest. Of course, routine and everyday life can absorb any person, but those who seek happiness will definitely find something in life that will cause positive emotions, new impressions and genuine interest in life. Happy people see life as an adventure worth living, not a problem to be solved.
A sign of a happy person is always optimism
After all, only a truly happy person can be unafraid of life's uncertainty and instability. Happy people have positive thinking, they believe that everything will turn out for the best as a result. Happiness forms a person's resistance to stress, which is probably why happy people sometimes seem a little carefree. What does happiness depend on?
Other signs of happiness
When a person is happy, his value system changes. The feeling of inner happiness "wings" a person and he rises above all life's worldly concerns. A happy person values more spiritual things in life, such as communication with loved ones and relatives, charity, faith, self-development and much more
About a happy person
- Has an active lifestyle;
- focused on self-development and self-improvement;
- strives to create a family and forms harmonious relationships;
- able to admit mistakes, learn from them;
- has a personal opinion, is not afraid to express it;
- endures life's problems stably;
- makes balanced decisions.
What does a person need for happiness?
In order to feel happy, you probably had to simply satisfy your needs and achieve your goals.
The ability to be happy is connected with the ability to notice, experience and feel the meaning of what is in life, to appreciate and love life in all its manifestations, to be in harmony with one's feelings, such as faith, pride, joy, love, hope and others .
What else is needed for happiness?
Ask yourself, what makes you happy? How can you make yourself happy more often and more? What prevents you from being happy?
Often we underestimate what we already have. Make a list of what you have already done, what you like to do, what successes you have achieved, what you value in your life, remember the happy moments.
Altruism helps to get closer to the feeling of inner harmony and happiness. Selfless concern for others creates an inner sense of belonging and belonging. Whether a person has a chance to create a family, find close friends, or realize himself in society depends on this basic human need.
For an inner feeling of happiness, you need:
sincerely want to become happy; determine personal understanding of happiness; develop a habit of looking at the world positively.
Good luck to you!!!
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