The "Look Later" Box: Master Your Emotions and Reclaim Your Life
There are moments in life when emotions become overwhelming. A wave of anger, humiliation, or paralyzing anxiety can strike exactly when you need to be focused. We are often told to "process emotions in the moment," but in reality, you don't always have the time, place, or internal resources to do so.
At MriyaRun, we offer a professional technique called "Emotional Containment," which helps you safely set aside feelings until the right moment, rather than suppressing them.
1. Why "Setting Aside" Is Crucial
Many confuse this technique with suppression. However, the difference is vital:
- Suppression is pretending the problem doesn't exist. It stays in your subconscious and harms your body through psychosomatic issues.
- Containment ("Look Later") is a conscious choice of the Author of their life. You acknowledge: "This emotion exists, it is important, but I don't have the resources to deal with it right now. I will put it in a safe place and return to it later."
Think of it like storing summer clothes in boxes before winter. They don’t disappear; they simply clear space for what matters today.
2. Step-by-Step Visualization
Step 1: Create an Emotional Image
Give the feeling a form. What does your anxiety look like? A black sticky cloud, barbed wire, or a heavy stone? Fix the first image that comes to mind.
Step 2: Choose Your Container
Imagine a box. What kind of box would hold this image securely? An iron safe, an old wooden chest, or a glass jar? Choose the material, weight, and color.
Step 3: Placement and Sealing
Visualize putting your emotion into this box. Close the lid and lock it. Feel how the box becomes heavy and how your anxiety is now trapped and safe from disturbing you.
Step 4: Store It Away
Send the container to a secure location: the bottom of the deep blue sea, a distant basement, or outer space. Be sure to label it: "Anxiety. Look Later."
3. MriyaRun: How to Handle Your Emotional "Archive"
Setting an emotion aside is only half the battle. The second half is returning to it when you have the strength.
- Analysis via EQ Emotions Diary. During a quiet evening, open your "archive." Write about what was in the box. You’ll often find that the contents have "shrunk" or lost their sting.
- Resource Protection via The Mistress of Her Boundaries Diary. This technique teaches you to set boundaries between your internal world and external circumstances. You decide where to spend your energy.
- Deeper Insight via Metaphorical Associative Cards (MAC). If a box keeps "resurfacing," use MAC cards. They help reveal the unmet need hiding behind that emotion.
4. The Finale: A Symbol of Liberation
Eventually, you will learn to dispose of these boxes. The final stage of your work can be the image of a ceremonial explosion of all accumulated containers. They crumble into dust, freeing up space for light, new ideas, and joy.
Conclusion: You are the director and editor of your life. You have the right to choose which scenes to watch now and which to archive. Live your best life today—the "box" will wait.
- Mriya.run: Space for Conscious Change. Learning, Practice & Tools
- Tools & Resources
- "Look Later" Technique: Managing Anxiety Today

