Feeling like your world is falling apart? It's not the end; it's turbulence before growth. How to navigate developmental crises with humor and grace. MriyaRun insights.
Women's Developmental Crises: A Survival Guide (And Why Staying in Bed is a Valid Strategy)
A crisis is a natural part of our development. But when it hits, it feels like the server of your life has crashed, and technical support is on vacation. The ground slips from under your feet, and you enter a state of severe "turbulence."
I believe it's important to understand one thing: try to treat this calmly. Well, as calmly as possible when it feels like your world is collapsing.
What is a Crisis? (The Honest Version)
I found the perfect definition for this state: A crisis is when the past has already died, but the future has not yet been born.
It is a timeless void. A limbo. It’s when you physically cannot get out of bed in the morning. Not because you are lazy, but because you can't find the answer to the question: "Why get up? To do what exactly?"
And here is the secret: happens to everyone.
Regardless of your social status, success, family, or how perfect your life looks on Instagram. This is a deep internal state. Crises happen to everyone—some just admit it honestly, while others hide behind a polite smile and pretend everything is fine.
Why Do We Need This Pain?
For me, a crisis is always about searching. It is a quest for new meanings, greater depth in relationships, feelings, and the taste of life itself.
It is a painful process, but a necessary one. Like a software update—it takes time and might freeze your phone for a bit, but afterwards, everything works better. If you go through it correctly, without getting stuck, you rise to a new level. You become Version 2.0 of yourself.
Practical Recommendations (How to Keep Your Sanity)
Here are a few tips on how to navigate developmental crises, based on professional experience and real-life stories.
- Allow It to Be (The "Power Saving" Mode) Stop resisting. Just accept everything that is happening. If you don't have the energy to get out of bed, allow yourself to stay there as long as you need. The world won't collapse if you take a day (or three) off from saving it.
- Become the Observer Understand that this too shall pass. Observe everything that happens inside you. Accept it and let it flow through you. Don't fight your feelings. If you need to cry, cry professionally.
- Find a Guide You can walk through the dark forest alone, bumping into trees. Or you can bring a flashlight. Seeing a specialist or a psychologist can help you get through this stage faster and with less pain.
The Main Insight
Understand and, most importantly, accept this: it will never be the same as it was.
You have changed. Your world will never be the same. It is like being born again.
Always remember that a new day will come. It will bring new experiences, new opportunities, and new chances. Be alive and open to what life brings. Don't try to preserve things as they were, even if they were good. The only constant in life is change.
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