Anxiety About New Beginnings: How to Overcome the Loss of Balance?
Anxiety arises as a response to the threat of losing hope for comfort. It is natural for most people to strive for a "plateau of stability" where we feel safe. We build boundaries and believe that we can finally relax.
But reality suggests otherwise. We live in the VUCA era—a world of Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity, and Ambiguity. The laws of physics and biology are relentless: if a system stops developing, it degrades. Moving to the next stage is inevitable, and it is often perceived as a threat to our comfort zone.
Why Does Anxiety Arise?
Anxiety is a negative emotion related to the mismatch between the situation and our expectations. Common causes include:
- Lack of experience or fear of making a mistake.
- Perfectionism and heavy responsibility.
- Lack of resources (time, energy).
- Fear of losing what you already have.
- Age-related concerns or fear of "looking bad."
However, anxiety also triggers a surge of energy. The goal is to use this resource wisely.
The "Anxiety Management" Technique: 7 Steps
To regain balance, we propose a technique to transform anxiety. For the best effect, we recommend writing your answers in your MriyaRun self-reflection diary.
Step 1. Find the Positive Intention
What is this anxiety trying to warn you about? Perhaps it is a signal to prepare better? In that case, anxiety is an indicator of your seriousness.
Step 2. Reframe the Cause
Find a new meaning. For example, mistakes are not failures; they are companions of gaining experience.
Step 3. Find Your "Control Lever"
Determine your sensitivity threshold. What reduces the intensity of your anxiety? A detailed plan? A walk? Find your individual calming criteria.
Step 4. Visualize Success
What positive things will happen when you manage your anxiety? How will this experience affect your personality? What more will you gain?
Step 5. Boost Self-Esteem
Who will you be in your own eyes when you implement these changes? Name this new role.
Tip: Use MriyaRun metaphorical cards to visualize this new empowering role.
Step 6. Ecology Check
Will these actions harm any other aspect of your life? If so, plan steps to eliminate possible negative consequences.
Step 7. Action Plan
Determine the first step—even a small one—that ensures you are moving in the right direction. And start acting.
Conclusion
Remember, uncertainty is "cured" by clarity. While you can start this journey today with a pen and a diary, fully unlocking the potential of this unique technology is best achieved with the support of an experienced consultant.
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