What is true acceptance? Why is gratitude for your body and emotions crucial? Insights from the book "Diary: Steps of Gratitude". Practical tips from MriyaRun.
The Power of Acceptance: How to Turn Your Inner Critic Into Your Best Friend
Author: Dmytro Telushko
Based on the diary: "Steps of Gratitude" (MriyaRun)
We often believe that happiness requires drastic changes: losing weight, earning more, or being more productive. However, psychological paradox suggests that true change begins not with a fight, but with acceptance. In the second part of the "Steps of Gratitude" diary, we explore Acceptance as the foundation of a harmonious life.
What is True Acceptance?
Many confuse acceptance with resignation or passivity. This is a misconception. Resignation implies internal agreement or approval of a situation, whereas acceptance is acknowledging reality without trying to deny it, which gives you the right to make conscious choices for future actions.
It is an internal act of liberation from fighting the unchangeable. Acceptance and gratitude are intertwined: by accepting life, we find meaning in it, and by expressing gratitude, we realize its fullness.
4 Pillars of Self-Acceptance
The diary guides you through four stages of deep acceptance:
1. Gratitude for Your Body
Your body is your first home. It withstands fatigue, heals wounds, and allows you to experience joy and pain, even when we view it through the lens of criticism .
- Practice: Stop comparing yourself to others. Learn to listen to your body's signals: changes in breathing, hunger, or tension. These are not weaknesses but the body's language asking for care.
2. Accepting Emotions
Emotions are the language of your soul. They are not weaknesses but signals. Anger may indicate crossed boundaries, while fear warns of potential challenges.
- Insight: 20% of people do not understand their emotions. When we stop fighting them and start listening, they become friends rather than burdens. Ask yourself: "What does this feeling want to tell me right now?".
3. Recognizing Achievements
Imposter syndrome often prevents us from accepting our success. Acceptance is the ability to see value in every step, no matter how small.
- Advice: Recognizing success is an act of self-care. It is a way to say "thank you" to yourself for the effort.
4. Friendship with Yourself
We seek support externally, but true stability has always been within.
- Exercise: Develop an inner voice of support, like that of a best friend. The most important gift we can give ourselves is to be a friend who believes in and inspires us.
Tool for Change: "Steps of Gratitude" Diary
Theory is nothing without practice. That is why our diary includes structured pages for daily self-reflection:
- Morning Routine: Questions like "How can I make today happier?" and gratitude focus.
- Daily Review: Mood tracker, energy levels, and noting what went well.
- "What is Beautiful in Me" Technique: Creating a list of qualities that make you proud.
Remember: Hard times don't last forever, but your resilience does.
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