Of course, a woman can be understood: in a dream, as a rule, all feelings are as intense as in reality. Moreover, the "aftertaste" from them often remains even after waking up.

The Austrian neurologist, the founder of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud was the first to talk about dreams in a scientific, rational way. Previously, the idea that dreams were sent by the gods prevailed, and only Plato was very close to the psychoanalyst's theory. He believed that dreams are the fruit of the soul, which is unable to cope with its desiring part, and therefore shows a person his bad desires at night.

Freud's thought has a lot in common with Plato's. In 1900, the psychoanalyst published a work called "The Interpretation of Dreams." He also suggested that we dream what we desire. Moreover, most often these are repressed desires - those that for some reason we consider bad, or those that cannot be realized. We do not allow ourselves to think about them in a clear consciousness, so they come to us in a dream - when the unconscious part of the psyche reigns.

Of course, this does not apply to all dreams, but only those that cause strong emotions, leave us puzzled or repeat themselves over and over again. Other dreams, as a rule, are just residual impressions after a busy day. And yet, if we pay attention to the signals of the unconscious, we will be able to quickly identify internal conflicts and begin to resolve them independently or with the help of specialists - psychologists and psychotherapists.

So, what disappointing conclusion can you come to if you dreamed of a husband's betrayal? It is unlikely that deep down you want this (although this is also possible in some cases). Most likely, it is about fear. And this is quite logical, especially if you have reasons for concern in real life. For example, if you have already caught your partner cheating or you know about his interest in other women. And even if it is in the past, the fear could be deeply embedded in your head.

In this case, it is necessary to solve the issue together. To begin with, of course, honestly answer the question: is this exactly the relationship you dreamed of? Is it really possible to make them better? If you understand that this man is valuable to you, you need to talk to your heart. Express your concerns, tell him that his behavior hurts you, and ask for a compromise. A man who values ​​your relationship will definitely listen to you. And if suddenly it is difficult for you to find a way out, although you both want it, you should think about going to a family psychotherapist.

It may also be that the man did not give real reasons for jealousy. However, even in everyday life, you tend to be suspicious and controlling. Then it is important to understand that the source of the problem is only your perception. So, the main steps to solve it are up to you. Although, of course, the support of the husband will not be superfluous. What can be done? It is important to determine the source of jealousy, to understand at what moment it arose, to see what internal conflict lies behind it, to experience the emotions associated with it, to try to find a solution for it, and then to determine a new tactic of behavior and learn to follow it.

This happens, for example, if you have elements of an anxious type of attachment that you have suppressed for some reason (let's say to be "convenient" for men), or if you have already had to get burned in other relationships and not necessarily with a partner, this could happen . and in childhood with parents. In this situation, it is necessary to act in the same way as in the previous one. True, here you can face greater difficulties, because it is not so easy to work with the unconscious on your own. So it is better to turn to a psychoanalyst or psychotherapist who practices in another method.