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Becoming “Uncomfortable” — Why It’s Sometimes the Healthiest Choice
In our culture, being “comfortable” is often seen as a virtue. Being polite, agreeable, non-confrontational — all signs of a “good person.” We’re praised for helping, supporting, listening, adjusting. But rarely are we celebrated when we say “no,” set boundaries, or choose ourselves over others’ expectations. The truth is, being comfortable isn’t always the same as being kind. Sometimes it’s a survival mechanism — a childhood habit, a fear of losing love or being rejected, a need to fit an “ideal” image. The problem begins when constant people-pleasing starts working against us.