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Self-education of the individual
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Many people are interested in self-development, study the advice of psychologists, and at the same time spend a lot of time on eliminating superficial flaws, instead of getting rid of internal problems. For example, to become more self-confident, it is not enough to simply use affirmations or other mental methods. They usually work in many cases, but in order to become confident in yourself for the rest of your life, you need not only superficial, but also deep work on yourself. Basics of self-development. Where to start?
That is, to really become a self-confident person, it is necessary to find the cause of insecurity and indecision. By understanding the cause of insecurity and eradicating it, you can start developing and forming confident behavior.

Self-education of an individual is an internal work

People often compensate for their internal problems with external substitutes, such as depression by shopping or playing computer games instead of finding the cause of the depression.
Temporary substitutes do not solve internal problems, but only silence them and delay their resolution. This is avoiding the problem, not solving it. Understanding, accepting and solving your inner problem is what real self-development means. This is where self-education begins.
Internal self-development and self-education of an individual is a long process, not superficial, but effective. Pass the "Goal - Means - Result" test

Processes and methods of personal self-education

The ability to control one's emotional reactions and manifestations. Self-education includes emotional responsibility in any life situation. External influences and irritants should not drive you crazy, no one and nothing can manipulate you.
Inner peace Life is not without difficulties and evil people. You have to learn to be calm and self-sufficient. For self-education, decide once and for all to start reacting correctly to all life's negativity, to perceive it without irritation and aggression.
Treat the problem as an interesting task. Such internal work will save you from stress and depression. This perception allows you to cope with negative emotions about the problem and focus on finding a solution. And this is a great task for personal self-education.
Working on the inner world is also the ability to interact with the outer world. The ability to communicate with people contributes to internal development and self-education. After all, if a person who has not solved most of his internal problems, simply does not know how to find an approach to people. After all, such psychological personal complexes as resentment, criticism, victim syndrome significantly affect the entire process of communication.
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