When we meet a man who behaves like a knight, it is fascinating. We feel beautiful, desirable, worthy of care and love. But at some point we begin to notice cracks in his shining armor and ask: does he want to protect me or is he trying to control everything?

Be on the lookout: At the first sign of control, walk away to save yourself months or even years of pain and struggle. Such men are often cunning. They do not act directly and try to disguise their control in order to protect you from a scary and cruel world. And by the time you realize what you've gotten yourself into, it won't be so easy to get out of the quagmire.

At first it may make a good impression: he is a real man, strong and self-confident. But the phrase "It will be my way or not!" says that if you stumble even once, you will not suffer the punishment. Even if it is silent ignoring, it will become real flour. Especially considering the fact that you most likely won't even understand what exactly you did wrong.

A controlling man is a know-it-all, and you have to admit that. It doesn't matter what you think about any topic, whether it's politics, art, relationships, or parenting.

An initiative man is wonderful. But even such a partner should take into account your desire and mood.

You should be comfortable and you should feel safe. And you definitely shouldn't do something you don't want to do, even if your husband wants it. Do not show violence against yourself.

For example, he might say that you should wear a t-shirt over your gym top for a run, because otherwise you look too undressed, and you might even think it's a show of care.

If his girlfriend wants to tell you about something, it is likely that she is not doing it out of jealousy and maliciousness, but out of female solidarity and a desire to help. Listen to her and don't be surprised if the story of their relationship is similar to your life.